I was thinking about this some today...
I believe human nature gives us the tendency to define ourselves by what we do. Most frequently this is what we do with our job: "I am a carpenter, I
am a banker, I am a small business owner..." Since we heavily invest ourselves (time, money, mental space) in it, it sort of becomes a big part of our
identity... Likewise we invest time, money, and mental space in our pastimes and they too become a defining part of our identity. We all know what we
invest in kiting... MONEY... TIME... this sound familiar? "When I'm not doing it, im thinking about doing it..."
That said, all of that investment as well as the attention we get from kiting gives us pride in it... After all, it defines us right?... So when we
encounter someone whose pastime might equally as cool as ours, that Pride shows up with its ugly face on... "I'm a kite surfer, and I've got cool
stuff... But you're a buggy pilot and your stuff is pretty cool and unique too... Not sure I like that?!?!?!" And vice versa with us... In short "the
coolness of your identity is a threat to the coolness of my identity"....It's a lesson in humility, right?
Does this make any sense?... Anybody picking up what I'm throwin' down?
Sorry, just sharing thoughts.
I'm sure we are not all this way,... I just know what I'm guilty of in the cognitive framework, that is.
Ok... I'll stop now.
I'm going to take a nap now